Tuesday, October 20, 2026

Group Chat

It's really special having two missionaries out at once. It was extra cool on Monday to get to talk to them at the same time.

Monday, October 19, 2026

Sawubona

Topher gave his first real (as in, not during testimony meeting or the primary program) talk in sacrament meeting yesterday. He took notes during General Conference, which provided the outline for his remarks. On Saturday afternoon I typed while he dictated, then I asked follow-up questions and typed his responses. This talk is 95% him and 5% me.

And, even though he was very nervous, he did a great job delivering it.

Sawubona is a phrase from southern Africa that means “I see you.” I know this phrase from a talk in General Conference. The person who said it is the new General Primary President named Rosemary K. Chibota. She said, “This greeting is much more than a simple “hello.” It is an acknowledgement of another person’s worth and humanity. It communicates “I recognize you, I respect you. You matter.”” Close quote. Jesus was really good at this. He saw the woman at the well and He told her that He was the Messiah. He saw the blind man and healed him. Jesus told the story of the good Samaritan who saw a child of God instead of an enemy. Someone who saw me as a child of God was Brother W. because he let me give this talk and I’ve always wanted to give a talk in sacrament meeting. He saw I really wanted to do this even though I’m little. My testimony is that you can see others for who they really are, children of God. You can practice by saying “I recognize you, I respect you, and you matter“ just like Jesus did. We are all children of God. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

Thursday, October 15, 2026

Feeding a Small Army

Before he started his mission, Cooper asked if we could hold an open house so people from church could gather to say goodbye to him. I've never done something like that (Peter's missionary experience has been very different, so we've experienced a lot of firsts with both of them) and felt a little daunted by the request.  But I told him I'd think about it. His buddy Spencer was set to go into the MTC the week before Cooper. Since we would largely be inviting the same people, we decided to combine our efforts and hold a joint open house. She provided the German food (Spencer was called to Berlin) and we brought the Brazilian food. It was an interesting culinary juxtaposition.

I cooked for two days to be ready. I now can successfully make pineapple-upside cupcakes, sequilhos, and Pao de Queijo. I made so many batches of that last one that I memorized the recipe. We also took a veggie tray and a fruit tray. Bryan cooked a big batch of Brazilian steak and cut it into bite-sized pieces. He also made all the food signs in German and Portuguese.

We had nearly 100 people RSVP.

I would guess that about 75 actually came.

I didn't take a single picture of the people because I was on my feet chatting with people for over two hours and didn't even think of it.

But I did  take pictures of all the food before anyone arrived!











Even though they went in a week apart, they still found each other at the MTC and took a picture to send to their moms!

Wednesday, October 14, 2026

Fewer Is Better

 Good news! It looks like maybe the fix worked! While I have 100 views on Monday's post, I only have 16 views for yesterday.

I never thought I'd be pleased to have fewer readers. But real, human readers are infinitely better than the bot variety.

For now, we'll stick with a public but unsearchable blog.

Tuesday, October 13, 2026

But First

Thank you to those of you that have reached out saying you'd still like access to the blog.

Bryan found one more thing to try before I make the blog private. I've just changed some settings, none of which will be obvious to anyone reading. Unless you're a bot, then hopefully it will be clear that something is different.

Until we get this issue resolved, I probably won't post much. I mean, I'll still write something every weekday, but I'll hold off on any real content.

Monday, October 12, 2026

Lock It Down

Here's something fun. And by that, I mean not at all fun. I get anywhere from 15 to 50 views on most of the posts on this blog. I looked at it this morning and we're now between 150  and 300 views on several posts. Considering that it's already unsearchable, we suspect that bots have found their way to the blog. After a consultation with my in-house technical support (Bryan), it looks like we need to lock down the blog and make it private. I don't love this, but I don't want bots to have access to it.

If you would like to continue to have access to this blog, please send me a message (email, text, Messenger, Marco Polo). I'll figure out the logistics of adding specific people.

That is all.

Friday, October 9, 2026

Walk On

I got to watch Topher at his Fitness Walk yesterday. He had fun and did a good job following directions. I wish I'd gotten a picture of him throwing a football through a hula-hoop, his aim was great!




Thursday, October 8, 2026

Into the Unknown

On Wednesday morning, Cooper enjoyed a pancake breakfast at Nana Shari and Papa Ron's house,


repacked to include all the white shirts and the white pants he'd gotten the day before,


stopped by The Missionary Mall to buy a few ties (not pictured), drove to Provo for lunch at the new Creamery on Ninth at BYU,





drove to the MTC drop-off spot in the parking garage,


said one more round of goodbyes,




and went on his way.



We miss him, and I've cried a few times since he left on Tuesday morning, but we're so glad that he's chosen to serve a mission.

Wednesday, October 7, 2026

The Day Before

Cooper and Bryan spent most of Tuesday traveling to Utah. I think the best part of that long day was getting to hug family once they arrived.