Last week I kept having the thought that I needed to check on our garden. I'm afraid it's been severely neglected this year. On Saturday I stole away for what I thought would be ten minutes to see if we had any more tomatoes that were ripe.
I ended up being gone longer.
As I've said before, ours is one plot of many in a community garden. They're not locked up or closed off from the public. Anyone can walk through them that wants to. Sadly, someone walked through ours sometime in the last two weeks. Actually, they did more than walk.
First I noticed was that one of our Sugar Pumpkins was smashed. Then I saw that our tomato plants had been knocked over. The next thing I realized was that we were missing pumpkins. Nine pumpkins, all of them from Peter's miniature pumpkin vine that he had chosen to plant. In fact, none of his pumpkins were left. I spent a good deal of time searching through the vines making sure that I hadn't overlooked any of the small yellow squashes. I hadn't. It was only as I was leaving the garden that I realized my watermelon was missing too.
While I was bummed about my watermelon, I was much sadder about Peter's pumpkins. He's been watching them grow all summer, excited each time he discovered another one. As I stood in the garden, surveying the damage, I could picture Peter's reaction to his missing plants. I was sure there would be tears. I quickly picked all the tomatoes that could be saved, pulled all of our onions out of the ground, and steeled myself to tell Peter about the vandalism.
When I got home I told Bryan first. He agreed that we needed to tell Peter right away, so I called him out of his room and sat down on one of our dining room chairs so we were eye to eye. I took both of his hands in mine and I told him that someone had hurt our garden and that all of his pumpkins were gone.
At first he just looked at me with his big brown eyes. Then he asked a question I had no real answer for. "Why?" I told him I didn't know. He wanted to know if I had asked them why they had done it. He suggested telling them that we had been planning on making a pie. I said I hadn't seen the people that had done it, that I didn't know who it was, and that I had no way to ask why they had done that to our garden.
This is when I expected the tears to start flowing. But Peter is full of surprises. He was okay. He was sad, yes, but he wasn't heartbroken. And when I mentioned that maybe we could go to a pumpkin patch as a family to replace his pumpkins he got really excited. There were no tears, no consoling needed.
I think he set me a very good example.