Heredity is a funny thing. I often look at the kids and attribute various characteristics to me or to Bryan or to another close family member. Peter has the bridge of my nose, but the tip of Bryan's. Cooper has Bryan's dark eyelashes and brown eyes, but my eye shape. Phoebe has my face shape, but Bryan's eye shape. They are all combinations, variations.
At the dentist we learned that this extends to their teeth. Cooper went yesterday and we got some bad news. We knew he had a cavity (because we could see it), but now we know that he has nine cavities. Two of them are so bad he'll need crowns. I'm a faithful tooth-brusher, even with my kids. Apparently that wasn't the problem. The holes in Cooper's pearly-whites come from a lack of flossing. Flossing? Really? For my five-year-old? Maybe that makes me sound lazy, but brushing by itself is a battle some nights. He'll have everything taken care of next week. I hope he still has kind feelings about the dentist when it's all done.
Peter and Phoebe went in today. After Cooper's diagnosis, I was nervous. But guess what? Phoebe's teeth are perfect. She even let them clean, examine, and x-ray her teeth without any fuss at all. They were shocked that it was her first visit.
Peter did have two small cavities, but considering it's been two years since he saw a dentist (pesky lack of dental insurance), that's not bad at all. He'll get them filled and have his permanent teeth sealed next week. The biggest bummer we learned about his teeth was that he lost a lower canine prematurely (last summer, and nothing has grown in yet) and now several of his adult teeth have grown in at a slight angle. The dentist recommended pulling the other lower canine to give the teeth room to shift back.
So why all the talk of heredity? Bryan has beautiful straight teeth. Straight teeth that are riddled with fillings. He has soft enamel and is seriously prone to holes, which I've
written about in the past. I did have cavities as a child, but that was due to too much apple juice consumption. I think that Cooper may have gotten Bryan's teeth. And I have very strong teeth that were naturally horrendously crooked. I had teeth growing behind other teeth... it wasn't pretty. Peter seems to have my strong, crooked teeth, which means that braces are probably in his future. I even had to have four teeth extracted because my mouth was too small and there wasn't room for all of them.
Heredity is a funny thing.