Friday, January 29, 2021

A Man in a Suit

Topher inherited a onesie swimsuit and has worn it for water play exactly once. It is now definitely too small. I've been meaning to go through his drawers and pull out the items he's outgrown, I just haven't gotten around to it yet. That means that he asks every few weeks to wear the swimsuit. I redirect him to wear something else and we carry on with the day.

Except for yesterday.

Yesterday I told him to pick something out, then I walked into the bathroom to throw something away. When I came out, not only had he picked the swimsuit out, he had also started putting it on. Well, okay. I helped him put it all the way on, and added pants since it's a little too cold for short shorts. He wore the hood up throughout the day and ran around being a superhero.

The best part? He can't remember that it's called a swimsuit. Instead he says, "I want to wear my suitcase."

Thursday, January 28, 2021

The Memory Keeper

This picture represents a significant number of hours of my time. After nearly thirteen years of writing the blog and a few years of printing it, the printed hard copies are totally up-to-date. The 2020 books arrived last week. I love that these are here and easily accessible to the kids. They love pulling them out and rediscovering all the adventures and funny quotes chronicled therein.


Now when people ask why I stay up so late I can tell them it's because I'm busy filling a bookshelf.


Wednesday, January 27, 2021

In Hot Water

Yesterday's big adventure began when Phoebe turned from her desk in the basement to the adjacent exercise area to attend her PE class. That's when she saw water on the basement floor. The water happened to be surrounding the water heater. She alerted Bryan and he reached out to the landlord. 


I learned about it when I finished putting Topher down for a nap. The repair technician would arrive between 3 and 5, except that they finished a previous call early and we had about fifteen minutes notice to grab lunches and laptops and school supplies and head to the top floor, away from people not inside our bubble.

Guess who got a new water heater today?

I was surprised that they took care of it right away. A second technician was called to help and, all things considered, the job was done relatively quickly. The kids and I hung out upstairs for about five hours while Bryan continued to work in the basement and supervise. And good news, unlike the AC repairman in the summer, these guys kept their masks on the whole time. When they left, busted water heater in tow, Bryan sanitized and we emerged from our seclusion.

Hot water is a luxury I'm quite thankful for.

Tuesday, January 26, 2021

It Depends

 Sometimes you want to run around and be loud with your siblings.

Sometimes you want to sit quietly with your doll and play a board game.

It depends on the day.


Monday, January 25, 2021

Photo Ready

 "Topher, you look so handsome in your church clothes. Can I take a picture of you before we put your jammies back on?"



Friday, January 22, 2021

Workout Buddies

 Topher has really been enjoying first grade PE.


Thursday, January 21, 2021

Maths

Because we watched the inauguration yesterday, the school day was pushed back a bit. It ended up being a do-your-math-at-the-table-while-Mom-makes-dinner-kind-of day.



Wednesday, January 20, 2021

Brave Enough

This morning I halted school and turned on the inauguration, as I've done in the past. It was beautiful. I was delighted by Lady Gaga's tasteful and lovely rendition of The Star-Spangled Banner. I loved the choice made by several of the women in attendance to wear purple, a nod to red and blue coming together. I deeply appreciated calls for kindness. I loved the talk of scripture and God, particularly the mention of James 1:5 in the invocation. I adored that The Pledge of Allegiance was presented in English and American Sign Language, both by the same person.

One of the most poignant parts of the day was the performance of The Hill We Climb, an original poem written by poet laureate Amanda Gorman for the inauguration. It was not only beautifully composed, but movingly performed. I read a bit about it tonight. She was about halfway done writing it two weeks ago, then the capitol riot took place. She stayed up late that same night and finished it.

As I thought about what I could write tonight to remember the events of today, her poem came to mind. So many lines resonated with me, but the last two are my favorite.

When day comes, we ask ourselves, where can we find light in this never-ending shade?

The loss we carry. A sea we must wade.

We braved the belly of the beast.

We’ve learned that quiet isn’t always peace, and the norms and notions of what “just” is isn’t always justice.

And yet the dawn is ours before we knew it.

Somehow we do it.

Somehow we weathered and witnessed a nation that isn’t broken, but simply unfinished.

We, the successors of a country and a time where a skinny Black girl descended from slaves and raised by a single mother can dream of becoming president, only to find herself reciting for one.

And, yes, we are far from polished, far from pristine, but that doesn’t mean we are striving to form a union that is perfect.

We are striving to forge our union with purpose.

To compose a country committed to all cultures, colors, characters and conditions of man.

And so we lift our gaze, not to what stands between us, but what stands before us.

We close the divide because we know to put our future first, we must first put our differences aside.

We lay down our arms so we can reach out our arms to one another.

We seek harm to none and harmony for all.

Let the globe, if nothing else, say this is true.

That even as we grieved, we grew.

That even as we hurt, we hoped.

That even as we tired, we tried.

That we’ll forever be tied together, victorious.

Not because we will never again know defeat, but because we will never again sow division.

Scripture tells us to envision that everyone shall sit under their own vine and fig tree, and no one shall make them afraid.

If we’re to live up to our own time, then victory won’t lie in the blade, but in all the bridges we’ve made.

That is the promise to glade, the hill we climb, if only we dare.

It’s because being American is more than a pride we inherit.

It’s the past we step into and how we repair it.

We’ve seen a force that would shatter our nation, rather than share it.

Would destroy our country if it meant delaying democracy.

And this effort very nearly succeeded.

But while democracy can be periodically delayed, it can never be permanently defeated.

In this truth, in this faith we trust, for while we have our eyes on the future, history has its eyes on us.

This is the era of just redemption.

We feared at its inception.

We did not feel prepared to be the heirs of such a terrifying hour.

But within it we found the power to author a new chapter, to offer hope and laughter to ourselves.

So, while once we asked, how could we possibly prevail over catastrophe, now we assert, how could catastrophe possibly prevail over us?

We will not march back to what was, but move to what shall be: a country that is bruised but whole, benevolent but bold, fierce and free.

We will not be turned around or interrupted by intimidation because we know our inaction and inertia will be the inheritance of the next generation, become the future.

Our blunders become their burdens.

But one thing is certain.

If we merge mercy with might, and might with right, then love becomes our legacy and change our children’s birthright.

So let us leave behind a country better than the one we were left.

Every breath from my bronze-pounded chest, we will raise this wounded world into a wondrous one.

We will rise from the golden hills of the West.

We will rise from the windswept Northeast where our forefathers first realized revolution.

We will rise from the lake-rimmed cities of the Midwestern states.

We will rise from the sun-baked South.

We will rebuild, reconcile, and recover.

And every known nook of our nation and every corner called our country, our people diverse and beautiful, will emerge battered and beautiful.

When day comes, we step out of the shade of flame and unafraid.

The new dawn balloons as we free it.

For there is always light, if only we’re brave enough to see it.

If only we’re brave enough to be it.

Tuesday, January 19, 2021

Soup's On!

Topher likes to come running into the kitchen while I'm preparing dinner (usually with whichever big kid is supposed to be watching him trailing closely behind) and ask, "Mom, what are you making?"

Last night his question was slightly different, "Mom, are you making bread?"

"No," I glanced at the finished bread on the counter from the day before. "I'm making soup."

"Soup..." he responded, searching for the right word. "Soup... is gross!"

And then he liked it so much that he ditched the spoon and used his bread to get the soup to his mouth faster. A bath soon followed.



Monday, January 18, 2021

Love Your Neighbor

Tonight for Family Home Evening, as a way to celebrate Martin Luther King, Jr day, we read I am Martin Luther King, Jr and discussed how relevant Dr. King's message and work are today. I told them that our country is not as safe as it should be for people of color, even so many years after the Civil Rights movement. The kids asked good, hard questions. I cried multiple times as I tried to get through the book, because the message is so close to my heart.


I concluded the lesson by asking them what Jesus taught about how we should treat our neighbors.

"Love them," they said.

"And who is your neighbor?"

"Everyone."